Every paper you’d need if you ever file. In one place.

You don't know which papers you'd even need.

Screenshots you never sorted. A notes app full of dates. Bank accounts you can't log into. A tax return you've never seen.

And then the attorney starts the clock at $300 per hour.

What you can't do on your own:

• Practice the financial form you'll sign under oath, before you ever see the real one
• Answer five yes or no questions that show if mediation is safe for you or a trap
• Set up an email he's never seen and bank codes that come to your phone, not his
• Know what to document if you're the primary parent and he asks for 50/50
• Fill in your own parenting plan before his attorney sends one

Why now: today you can still log into the joint account and pull last year's tax return. Right now, you can still see the accounts. That can change. It’s easier to write it down while things are calm.

Part one takes 20 minutes. Page one tells you where to keep it so he won't find it.

What 100+ women have said:

"I saved so much time and money using this."

"I felt more prepared to file because I knew what was going to be asked of me."

M., Wisconsin

And from the other side of the desk:

"My client came in so well prepared, putting her way ahead. I wish more people knew about Kerrie."

Family law attorney, California

What's inside:

• Your private setup. Right now, his phone number is probably the backup on your accounts, and your bank's security codes may go to a phone on his plan. I walk you through fixing that step by step: a new email he's never seen, accounts only you can get into, and codes that come to you.
• The papers that are a nightmare to replace. Passports, birth certificates, the prenup, the kids' shot records. One checklist. Take a photo of each and you're done.
• The money file. What you own, what you owe, and twelve months of statements, filled in over a few sittings.
• The Financial Affidavit Dry Run. A financial affidavit is a form the court makes you fill out and sign under oath. It lists everything that comes in, everything that goes out, and everything you own and owe. The judge uses it to decide support and who pays what. Most women see it for the first time with a deadline on it and no idea where the numbers are. This spreadsheet is your practice run. You fill it in now, quietly, so when the real one comes you're copying, not guessing. It also answers the question that keeps you up at night: what would my life actually cost after?
• Your state on one page. Waiting periods, how property gets divided, and how support is figured.
• The honest assessment. There are four ways a divorce can go: you two agree at the kitchen table, you mediate, your attorneys negotiate, or a judge decides. Which one is realistic for you depends on him, not you. Five yes or no questions about how he behaves show you which road you're actually on. This matters because mediation works when both people tell the truth. When one doesn't, it can leave you with a worse deal than going to court.
• The temporary hearing. The one nobody prepares for, which sets the schedule you live with for years.
• The parenting record. You do the school runs, the doctor visits, the homework, bedtime. But if it isn't written down, it's your word against his. When a judge or guardian ad litem decides custody, they look at who has actually been doing the parenting. This list turns what you already do every day into something a stranger can check in ten minutes.
• How to keep a record a judge will actually read. Four lines per entry: the date, what happened, his exact words, and who else was there. Just the facts, no feelings.

Bonuses

• The Attorney Guide. The questions to ask before you pay a retainer. ($17 on its own)
• The Retainer Red Flags. 10 signs to keep looking before you pay a cent.
• The Weekly Transition Plan. One page you fill out with your kids so handoffs stop being a surprise. Until now, only my 1:1 clients got this.

Why tonight and not later

Right now you can still log into the joint account, pull last year's tax return from the file drawer, and download the retirement statement. That can change. It’s easier to write it down while things are calm. Getting it back later means your attorney asking for it, and you paying for every hour it takes.

My promise

Do part one tonight. If it doesn't feel like the first real step you've taken, email me and I'll refund you.

What if he sees the charge?

He won't see my name. Your bank statement says KR COACHING. Nothing about divorce. Nothing about me. Nothing he'd look twice at.

Questions women ask first

Do I have to be ready to file to use this?
No. Lots of women use it just to see where they stand.

Will anything show up in the mail?
No. It's a download. Nothing is mailed.

What if I'm not good with money stuff?
Each part tells you what to grab and where to find it. One page at a time.